What Should I Do If My Ex Girlfriend Texts Me?

Do you know what to do if your ex girlfriend texts you? This is a question that I often encounter. So what is the best answer?

Well, it really depends on your motivations. What do you want from her?

Perhaps you hope she will no longer bothers you? Still wish to be friends? Or do you want to get back together with her?

Your answer will determine what you should do.

Let us go through each individual scenario in more details.

1.You Do Not Want Her to Bother You Anymore

This pretty straightforward. You can simply ignore her. Just don’t reply her text message.

If you think that is very rude, then just reply her and tell her to stop contacting you.

what should i do if my ex girlfriend texts me

2. You Still Wish to Remain As Friends or Maybe Even Get Back Together Some Time In The Future

Text her back. If all you wish to do is to remain as friends, there is really no need to worry too much about how you are going to reply her.

Just give her a friendly reply and that should be good enough.

3. You Want to Get Her Back

Want to know how to get your ex back? If you wish to get her back, then you really need to be careful about the message you are sending her.

There are 2 possible paths you can take, depending on the situation.

a) If both of you have not been contacting each other for a certain period of time and she suddenly text you, you should  reply her. However, don’t do it immediately!

You can wait for a few hours before replying. This is because you do not want to give her the impression that you are desperately waiting for her to contact her.

And make sure your reply is short and sweet. Your reply is meant to be a bait for a longer conversation. Also, DO NOT perform any acts of desperation such as telling her ‘how much I miss you’ .

b) If both of you have already been through the ‘no contact’ period, and is now contacting each other, then here is a little tactic that you can use.

Just follow what she is doing. In other words, if she takes a few hours to reply you back, you should do the same thing. If her message is short and sweet, there is absolutely NO reason why yours should be long winded.

To learn more about the psychological reasons of doing so, you can watch the video here.

When you follow the tactic mentioned here, you will be one step closer to getting your ex back. Just do it one step at a time and before you know it, your ex girlfriend will be back.

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